Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen

~Billy Joel

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Recently in reading blogs regarding sex quizzes, TMI’s…etc I have been surprised at so many peoples answers saying they would prefer no sex to bad sex. I guess the issue I have is while I can give myself a *killer* O…nothing beats one on one contact. The feel of someone else’s skin against yours, the weight of their body…. I crave *touch*.  Feeling….loved, sexy, DESIRED.  So while I may not want to have bad sex all the time (lol), if you go so long with NO sex, don’t you at some point think any sex is good?! 

And therefore, I choose bad sex over no sex. BTDT with the no sex and uh, no thanks.  ~wink~  It leads to nothing good, except wanting to go find it somewhere else! Just saying….  (ok, ok….I think bad sex leads you to wander too…but still.  Doh!)

I’d love to hear others opinions on this and explanations, the ‘why factor‘, of what makes you answer one way or the other.

Happy Hump Day!!!

~xo

1. LUST: Besides your current Significant Other who do you lust for or have you lusted for?
The hotter than HOT Beer Wench and Fairy at the Renaissance Festival this past wkend that kissed on me and I sooooooo totally wanted to let them take advantage of me.  Or uh, me of them. Whoa baby. *fans self*

2. GLUTTONY: What food brings out your inner glutton?
I guess cheese. I really love cheese. I can and love to eat it on/in just about everything.

3. GREED: What are you greedy for?
Hmm……once upon a time I would say happiness. Now….shoes.  LMAO

4. SLOTH: What is your plan for an ideal day of sloth?
Sleeping in, being brought coffee when I wake, staying in bed all day with next to nothing on, lying in PC’s arms, legs intertwined, sex//play/fun through out the day. Mmm…..

5. WRATH: Describe a time that you let out a can of whoop ass on someone.
I’d rather not. Pass.
Although it was almost Sunday at the Festival when this stupid kid kept standing in front of my 5yro niece and then had the nerve to be pissy with her when she stood in front of him bc he was sitting down and couldn’t see. She’s FIVE fucktard, he was TALLER THAN ME, stand the fuck up and quit ragging on a child, making her feel badly! Gah.

6. ENVY: Who or what do you envy? Why?
I used to envy women with husbands who were awesome to them and incredible fathers to their children. I don’t have to envy them anymore… ~GRINS!~
However, these days I think I slightly envy people with nice(r) houses. I love where we live but my house is embarrassing. *sigh* Someday we’ll have a nicer house….come on Barbie Dream house…. LOL

7. PRIDE: Have you ever had to swallow your pride?
Yes.  But I can’t think of anything right now. I suck.  Sorry.
What are you proud of?
Being a mom.  My children.  PC.  My sister, she is an amazing person.  I take pride in my passion, being open-minded and so open.

HappyTMI!!!

~xo

BTW….  I forgot to mention last night when I posted, TFT is up!  Thanks for everyone’s continued support.  There have been so many girls who have wanted to help and it’s awesome.  If you would like to contribute, email me here or here.  Be sure to include how (if at all) you would like to be credited/linked.

Mute Monday- Patriot/Patriotism

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Things to note-

• Wall-e is a very cute movie.
• Hancock is a very good/funny movie.  Awesome twist.
• Bud Light with Lime is good (yes, this is coming from a die hard Coors Light person!).  But not as good as when it’s in those really cool special stay cold bottles that apparently you can’t really buy.
• When you bring a watermelon to a BBQ, it should be brought PRE-CUT UP.  There was a convo on the 4th regarding this.  LOL
• Even though that blue law was amended here, not a single liquor store was open on Sunday I noticed.  Hmm.  Weird.
• Apparently you need a passport to go to Jamaica.  DOH!  Thank GOD I realized this NOW….which from what I can tell was soon enough.  (fuck me, seriously)

Ok. I had way more to say, we went to the Renaissance Festival and got some cool pics but more important things *ahemPCahem* call….  ~wink~  I’ll post the rest another time. 

Happy Monday!

...kuddos to ObsessionArt….
~xo

Your result for The What’s your sexual style?

TYPE O

You scored 75 imagination, 58 confidence, 50 dominance, and 38 generosity!

Take The What’s your sexual style? Test at HelloQuizzy

That’s right Baby!  ~wink~
(actually I think I have a fairly low ‘kink’ level….but have a high level of willingness to try….)

where at least I know I’m free.
And I won’t forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.
~Lee Greenwood

Friday Favorites-

Biscuit….

Charlie.…

Bittersweet….

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My man came home Thurs after being gone all week on business.  We weren’t really ‘clicking’ last wkend before he left (stupidfuckingpmscausingmetobesofuckingpsychotic….).  Which sucked ass.  Damnit.  But we more than clicked on his return.  Um…on numerous occasions…  Through out the day.  ~wink~  There are bonus’s to him coming home on a day the kiddos are at camp.  Mmmm….him leaving with me sexually frustrated really kind of paid off. *giggle*

So many wedding plans have come together in the last week.  Almost everything is taken care of.  *HUGE sigh of relief*

Ok so.  I want to bitch about something but refuse to give too much attention to it.  I seem to have a Flickr stalker.  A few years back I managed to piss a group of women off.  Which is interesting in itself bc none of them really knew what was going on but they sure did jump to their own conclusions and start a witch hunt.  The nice thing about my site here is that I can block whomever I want from visiting my site.  And I have blocked the majority of them (their IP’s) from being able to visit this site and cause ‘issues’ for me. Unfortunately it’s not the same on Flickr.  Over the last month I have begun receiving stupid, childish ‘comments’ from someone.  In order to view my photos and leave a comment over there you must have a profile with Flickr.  This person has enough time on their hands and are that obsessed that they take the time each week to make a fake profile.  I’m not saying it’s one of those women that had a vendetta against me.  I would like to hope not….I mean it’s been two fucking years.  And I never did anything TO those women.  It could be AH I suppose.  Or a guy friend I’m on the outs with bc I couldn’t put up with his drama whore/doggish life anymore (it would be *so* like him to act like a jilted lover….).  IDK.  I don’t honestly care.  But I am annoyed by this person.  Mainly it makes me just shake my head bc I can’t get over how pathetic this person is.  Good fucking lord.  GET A LIFE.
*rolling eyes*

Hope everyone in the states has a kick ass Fourth.  We’re spending the afternoon with my sisters family for a BBQ and then the fireworks down their street.  Have I mentioned how much I love my sister and her kiddos?!  Or how much I LOVE that she moved back?!?!  …:::happy sigh:::…

Happy Fourth of July!

~xo

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HappyHNT!!!

~xo

~Frank Sinatra

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So.  As of July 1 the blue law in Colorado was lifted.  Which means, alcohol sales are legal on Sundays now.  For people who are totally foreign to this idea or what this means.  Up until now it’s been like this:

Liquor stores sell ALL forms of alcohol (beer, wine, hard alcohol) were open Mon-Sat.  On Sundays, ALL liquor stores are closed.  BUT Monday-Sunday (seven days a wk) you can buy 3.2 beer (the beer sold in liquor stores are like 3.6 of 4.0….it doesn’t matter to me, I think it’s silly, I buy my beer where it is most convenient…if that happens to be while I’m in Walmart or while driving home to hit the drive through liquor store, it makes 0 difference to me *shrug*) and wine coolers/malt beverages.  But NO hard alcohol.

It has *always* been like this, for as long as I can remember (75years to be exact according to the article I found on this).  So I’ve never thought anything of it.  I guess the liquor store owners were against it, they would have rather stayed closed on Sundays. Not really sure why (I guess it was nice to have a mandatory day off???  IDK…).  But I guess the bigger threat to them, which has also been proposed but turned down, is allowing convenience stores to sell high alcohol and wine.  Which the liquor stores TOTALLY don’t want.

Convenience stores don’t love this new law and I guess were against it because they think it will cut into their profits. I imagine they made quite a bit of money on Sundays being the only ones allowed or open to sell beer (even if it is less alcohol content).  But as I mentioned before, I’m going to buy my beer where I am.  And 9 times out of 10, that is at a convenience store.  It’s less expensive and usually way more convenient.  I think there are quite a few people who are like this.

Well.  Anyways.  It passed and came into effect.

On several occasions the topic of different states liquor laws has come up on different boards I’ve participated in or between friends.  It is highly interesting to me how totally different each state can be.  My favorite state for alcohol sales I think is Ca.  I love when I go visit Mojito and we go grocery shopping and in the same trip can fill a whole other cart with JUST ALCOHOL.  It’s awesome!  LOL

Bc of all this, it made me curious and wanted to ask you all what your state liquor laws are.  I think many of you will be amazed at how different each state can be.  Ok, maybe ‘amazed’ isn’t the best word choice (lol).  But you get what I mean.  So?  Inquiring minds want to know.

Happy Hump Day!
 ~wink~

(I’ve discovered this site ObsessionArt… It’s where I’ve been getting a good majority of my pics to use in posts lately.  For someone who’s as into female, erotica photography as I am, it’s the. most. amazing site ever!!!)

~xo

1. Do you believe in marriage?
Yes.  Very much so.  At no point in my childhood did I ever think “When I grow up I want to meet someone, fall in love and have a live in boyfriend (girlfriend) forever and ever…”  Um…no.

2. What is marriage to you?
It’s a legal bond that kind of ’seals the deal’ between two people in love and want to spend the rest of their lives together.

3. If you are married, why did you do it? If you are not, why have you not married?
I was married, for over nine years.  I pushed him for it. I mean seriously we had been together since high school…it had been seven years I WANTED TO GET MARRIED GOD DAMNIT.  Well.  That crashed and burned.  Divorced.  I was actually in the midst of swearing off men altogether.  Forfuckingever.  But as my blog description says: I found the man of my dreams where I least expected when I was totally NOT looking.  And now I’m engaged to be married (second time is a charm is my motto….doh) to someone who is the *polar* opposite of AH.  And it works and he loves and respects me and treats me like a princess.  ...:::happy sigh:::…

4. Do you believe in divorce?
Yes.  I am NOT one of those people that takes it lightly though.  It’s not and should not be an easy out. I think WAY too many people cry the proverbial ‘uncle‘ when things aren’t as they hoped they would be or whatever.  I stuck with my marriage three years after I knew things were fucked.  He admitted ‘things’ to me weeks after our son’s birth that broke. my. heart. and although we seemed to semi-work past them….it was actually the beginning to the end.

5. If you are divorced, why did you do it? If you have not, are there certain circumstances under which you would agree to a divorce?
Wow. These questions are digging up some serious dirt….lmao…yikes!
In a matter of a summer, like a switch had been flipped, he became a jealous, controlling, abusive, psychotic freak accusing me of things I hadn’t done (or even considered), stalking me online…  Sadly, I fell completely out of love with him, I was insanely/certifiably depressed and unhappy (omfg u.n.h.a.p.p.y….).  I had to get out, for my children and my own well being.

Bonus (as in optional): [ed note:I am not trying to spark a get political debate, I am much to superficial for that]Do you believe that same sex marriages are a threat to traditional marriages?
No. I think that’s ridiculous.  I’m totally for same sex marriage.  As I stated above…marriage is a legal bond between two people that love each other.  It doesn’t (IMO) have anything to do with what sex the people are.

HappyTMI!!!

~xo

BTW….  TFT is up!  Thanks for everyone’s continued support.  There have been so many girls who have wanted to help and it’s awesome.  If you would like to contribute, email me here or here.  Be sure to include how (if at all) you would like to be credited/linked.

“We’ve got barefoot ladies and tricked out mercedes
And people getting crazy on the boulevard
We’ve got classic colas and ice cold corona’s
And big pool parties in the back yard…”
~Faith Hill

Soooo not a country music fan. But this song is catchy and likable and I thought of it immediately in regards to this theme, it’s one of LP’s favorites, she loves to turn it up loud and have us sing along to it.

Mute Monday- Summer

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I’m not going to bore you all with my wedding piddly shit.  I’ve been sleeping like crap, waking up from bad, high anxiety dreams having to do with ‘worst case scenarios’ as the wedding approaches (one month almost exactly people!).  So I got a lot of little shit checked off my list.  Hopefully that will help alleviate my subconscious OCD and help me sleep a bit better.  ~*fingers crossed*~  LOL

Oh.  And btw, Get Smart is very cute, and funny, and definitely worth seeing.  Everyone in the family loved it.

Hope everyone had a kick ass weekend. 
Happy Monday!

~xo

The Mission- Eight days at Disney World, three kiddos, one teenager and 2 adults.  Two suites.  Two hour time difference.  And heat.  Lots and lots of heat combined with humidity…..  The recap:

• Two days at Disney World





• LM is tall enough to ride ALL the rides.  WOOT!




• Hooters (yum!)
• Space Mountain is by FAR everyone’s favorite. 
• LM has *no* fear and will attempt anything.  *shaking head*  (I see good…and bad in this, lol)
  

• Shuttle rides are long.  Hot.  Humid. And when it rains (which was every afternoon/evening), lack air conditioning.  (gah!)

• It’s HOT.  And HUMID.
  

• It rains.  A LOT.  (every afternoon) And HARD.  It’s insane.  I’ve never experienced that much rain in that short of time.  It would start and with in a minute you would be *soaked*.
  

• Chevy’s (yum! We don’t have those)

• Sea World (woot!) By far the most hot, humid, miserable day.  Rained several times. 
  
  

• Shamu Rocks! (the show) was AWESOME.




• Children regretted decision to sit in “SPLASH ZONE” after already being drenched in rain storm AND it becoming dark (doh!)
  
• Tony Roma’s has THE. BEST. mango-strawberry margaritas E.V.E.R!  Salmon wasn’t bad either ~wink~

• Epcot was….Epcot.  As PC pointed out, it was worth visiting once.  THIS RIDE kicked *ass*.  (Poor PC missed it after waiting in a 70plus minute line, one of the kiddos wasn’t as excited as we were to ride it). 



(yes, proof my children don’t always get along…)

• THIS RIDE sucked ass. (…menolikey….I am extremely claustrophobic combined with the ’simulation’ part….:::puke:::…)

• Coco beach is very cool.
• Ron Jon is VERY VERY VERY cool. We (meaning PC’s niece and I) could have spent an entire day in there.  Bummer it was an hour away from the hotel (damnit).

• Shopping at Downtown Disney was….chaotic.  And crowded.  But
  worth doing, definitely.  Each of the 3 kids managed to find what their
  heart desired (and ironically enough we could have guessed what
  each would pick, lol…I was able to focus LM’s attention on
  something other than the $65 pirate costume he wanted *cough* …storm trooper guns are SO much less expensive cooler *wink*)

• Daytona Beach was sunny and kept us out of the rain for the first day since we arrived (I mean it rained at the hotel/parks the entire day….but never at Daytona, SAH-WEET!)



• Time difference totally screwed with us.  ie- woke up at funky
  times, ate at weird ass times, went to bed at even weirder times.  *shrug*
• Only sucky things to speak of besides the daily rain showers (and insane, icky heat Wednesday) was the intermittent internet (annoying) and nasty coffee (barf…and hey.  That is A LOT coming from me, lol!).
• Oh.  A coffee chain should so totally hit Downtown Disney.  It’s a sad thing when the only place you can get specialty coffee is from the ONE Dunkin Donuts.  I think that should be my next business adventure. ~grins~

Frog hunting….

Even ducks go on vacation!  Mr and Mrs Duck taking a dip. 

We took over two hundred pictures over the eight days.  LM was almost always at my side and rode all the rides with me.  LP and PC’s son were fairly inseparable.  When they weren’t he was spending time with his daddy.  PC’s ex was promised I wouldn’t ever post pictures of their son here.  So, all of those things combined caused me to be able to a) post very few pictures of LP, b) post very few pictures of PC, c) post very pictures of the kids or all of us.  I also decided that I had so many great beach shots, that I will hold off and post those next wk.